- You should have “mastery” in one thing that can help you to earn for your living even during trying circumstances. This could be your culinary skills, public speaking, writing, researching, reasoning, driving or for that matter, anything through which you can earn money “independently” throughout your life.
- Dreams and wishes are fine, but what you do in reality is what matters at the end! You may be chasing thousands of dreams and fantasies, but they are just a vanity that would give you only a temporary high!
- Do not spend lavishly in food, clothing, appliances and gadgets. They will wipe your earning!
- You must definitely have a solid investment when you reach your mid-life career phase or else, you will regret for not being able to take advantage of the opportunities in front of you
- Slowing down and focusing on a few high priority things is better than chasing many of your fantasies and vain pursuits
- In the workplace, nothing matters than your “problem solving” skills. People respect you only for your ability to solve their problems
- Nobody owes you anything, not even your parents and siblings and you “must” come out of that self pity mode or else the world is going to kick you hard!
- Learning to be patient and persevering is the best ability that one can develop for a satisfactory and happy life
- Don’t try to get too close with anyone. If you want to have your own boundaries, they are entitled for theirs too!
- Style, fashion, flamboyant lifestyle, social media postings etc are just a way to express your “inner” loneliness and insecurities
Having said that, even now, one can start a new life by giving up on the negative traits and developing positive ones! Human beings are awesome creations who have the power to change the course of their lives anytime they “decide” to do!
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